Nurturing Love

Recently, amidst my busy schedule of studying for upcoming exams, I took a small break to indulge in the Korean drama "Queen of Tears." Though I only managed to watch a few episodes, its poignant portrayal of relationships left a lasting impression on me.

One of the lessons I learned from the series was how seemingly insignificant misunderstandings can snowball into significant rifts between partners. The drama showed the impact of lack of communication on the dynamics of love. It highlighted the importance of open communication in preventing unintended hurt and resolving conflicts before they escalate.

Adding to this narrative was the idea of exclusivity in marriage. While the concept of exclusivity may initially seem comforting, over time, it breeds complacency. Partners start believing that they don't need to actively show their love or appreciation, thinking that their bond is secure by virtue of marriage alone. However, this misconception often leads to a decline of affection and creates emotional distance between partners.

Eventually, the absence of effort and appreciation sows resentment and discontent in their hearts, ultimately driving couples apart. The line between love and hate is thin, and it is too easy to tip the scale towards bitterness.

"Marriage is not a noun; it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get. It’s something you do. It’s the way you love your partner every day." - Barbara De Angelis

To protect a relationship, we need to prioritize nurturing our relationship. Instead of regretting after losing them, we must cherish our loved ones from the start, every single day, when we get to be with them.

No one can truly understand our feelings unless we show them through both words and actions. Let us seize every opportunity to express our love to those who matter most to us and not risk taking them for granted.

"The greatest marriages are built on teamwork, mutual respect, a healthy dose of admiration, and a never-ending portion of love and grace." - Fawn Weaver

In the end, "Queen of Tears" serves as a reminder that love is not a passive bond but an active choice - one that requires constant effort, communication, and appreciation. By showering them your love and gratitude, we can nurture lasting relationships that withstand the test of time. As someone said, "Love is not about how much you say 'I love you,' but how much you can prove that it's true."